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Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Becoming Ordained

I became ordained mainly to assist with debriefing Volunteer Emergency response Communications officers.

as a Divisional Commander (still) I find it was a good move.

I can now often get to what is troubling them after the official debrief by changing Hats so to speak.

When things are bad and the only contact with the outside world is the comms officers they are under a lot of strain, without really knowing what is happening other than the messages they pass.

A large part of moving on, after bad experiences is being able to talk about it
in a neutral situation.

Also I have found that it was the right choice, as I am also able to be an ear for, and able to support spiritually some of the people in the community most affected. 

Rev.Ed Crain

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Sunday, October 31, 2010

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Points to Ponder
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Children of the Creator, Children of our Earth Mother:

If you wish it so, take a moment to be thankful for all you have been given, all that you have, that which good in the eyes of the Creator. The Lord's day is upon us, ponder that which happened last week, that which you will engage in this week anew.
Hours ago some called it Back Friday, that day when the Holiday season begins, at least for the Commercial Retailers. Allow me to share my "Good Morning Sunday", for you, it will not take all that long-promise.  
Father grant us, your children Peace because your hour draws near, grant us Peace all of our days here on this Blue marble-we call Earth. Grant us peace as we toil this new week, for we know it is no one who toils longer nor harder than you-Dear Father. We ask that the Spirit of Peace descend upon us, for we ask this for all of your children, Father send your Spirit of Peace, to dwell among the children of Father Adam, and Mother Eve. Dearest Heavenly Father, we recognize it is from you and your will, that Justice and righteousness, can and soon will be among your Children. Humbled, with great prayer and fasting we recognize Peace will only be upon the Children of Man, your children, when we follow your will, your laws. We ask Dearest Father that the Great Spirit of Peace walk complete with our neighbors, our enemies, our families. We are instructed, tested, healed and cured, by your will, we ask that the Spirit of Peace prepare the way-Amen.
Some of the kinds of things I am asked to do include: Blessing a Mom in the making, and the new mother, blessing the Litte People-children's' actions/activities/school/play areas/living & sleeping area/the blessing of animals of all kinds/ candles and wreaths-since it is that season/ candles year round/food & beverage and sacred icons at holidays and non holidays/blessing a trip it can be work or recreation or day trips/counseling for the spirit and soul/ anointing of the sick, ill and terminally ill. Sometimes a child or any child of the Creator will ask: Why is this and has this been deemed so important to us? My reply: The loving care for the Soul, the uniting of the family of humanity; because we are given freedoms of belief-for some the belief is ok but not the sacraments; so that we experience the closeness of God; to commune with the Spirits of God to aid in of being alive-to enhance our Faith.
So what sort of training or experience is needed beyond faith and belief? Do you ask for specific skill sets, or is it my personal belief system you ask, if it is the latter-we speake of the first-first. What sort of Community Service is it you do or have done in the past- why, they are your brothers' and sisters'. Explore communication techniques and systems for the Care and Feeding of the Soul. Explore systems and techniques that address conflict resolution-so each side is an equal party-do you mean a talking stick. Sometimes this can work, if there is an answer feather as well. Co-equals, all of the time. It fosters understanding and harmony. It helps to understand other peoples religions, we are all children of the Creator-if we can and do accept them as they are, and they as we are-there will be peace, and understanding will follow. Are these essential truths-Yes. Is it true what people say about you, that you talk to the animals', and they to you? I also speake with the clouds, trees, waters, the air, the trees, the rocks. How about a mailbox, it is made of compounds found in or on Earth, if it is organic, it has a voice; it must for it is part of creation. Love thy neighbor is not just Two Legged, it must be all of our neighbors. What about meetings, and conferences or conventions? If it is  of man you seek answers to the ways of man-then seek man. If it is the ways of the Creator, then one must go to Creator, if it is of  the animals-you must go to the animals/tree/or whatever you seek to find answers from. Sounds a bit like not in reality or not normal.  Ok may I ask a question of you-sure. Is the world in which you live in-REAL? Or is of this world?
Are you saying this world is not real? I am saying this world is-Of this World. You look a bit confused. Yeah I am, what is it that you spend the most amount of time each day or week or month or year doing? Why? That which you do the most is that which you worship. So church isn't just one day a week thing? No, it is all day-every day, if not then you are worshiping this world-not Creator. So I should quit school and become a Priest? NO, school is not a 24/7 kind of thing. School helps you to understand and fit in with people/society/your brothers' and sisters'. Why can't I be just who I am? You are-but society is part of the solution for some needs you have, other needs are met by God. When you start something, include God; when finish something include God; when doing or going somewhere include God. I don't understand? It is really simple-include God in all that you do; everything you have, do, and keep-it is from God. Then why do we have church? Church is people coming together in unity and peace to worship and learn of God. So it isn't the building? No it is not, that is a building-not Church.
People say you protect animals, is this true. Yes, and I give toys to shelters for animals, and food treats for the shelters of animals of all sorts. Is that why you have so many bird feeders and bird baths? When man takes lands that were once the home of animals, man must give back to these same animals. The bird baths are really not so much for cleansing, are they are playgrounds for the birds to play in. When the shelter animals are in cages they need stimulation to fight off boredom and separation from their Pet Parents. Pet Parents? When you adopt any animals and make it part of your family, they are dependent upon you for all of their needs. Like a baby? Exactly. I also donate blankets,  bath and beach towels to the shelters. It provides not only warmth, but acts as a snuggle buddy.
What about when people or animals die? There are rituals and rites, and for some, ceremonies that take care of this. Why is saying good-bye so hard to do? Saying good-bye to any loved one is always hard. Think of it like this-their spirit has learned all they needed to know to move on. They now or soon will again, be in the Light of Creator. This is where they came from, and came down here to learn and grow. They did, so now they are home again. But it really is hard to still be here. It is part of what you need to learn and grow. Appreciate life and all the gifts of Creator, learn and grow. Then why am I so sad. To learn!

Thank you for this opportunity and service>lb

p.s.: Now and then make room for a used Golf umbrella, and a couple blankets. I go to St. Vincent de Paul Society Thrift store and Goodwill thrift stores to find these and other items. I donate them to one of the many Animals shelters nearby. Golf umbrella make wonderful tents for the invalid and critter babies to get some air, out in the exercise area. No exercise area is bad news, probably a "Kill Shelter" or a farm for "Testing Subjects", this latter I associate with intense animal cruelty. The "Kill Shelters" put the animal down within a few days if not placed into new homes.



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Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Online Sermon

Biblical Interpretation
One of our ministers found this on the internet and wanted to pass it along.
I found this looking around the internet and figured I would forward it to you to pass on to the up and coming Christian theologians.


A lot of good information to use as a reference I thought.


Colin.




8 rules of biblical interpretation.


"And so we have the prophetic word made more sure, to which you do well to pay attention as to a lamp shining in a dark place, until the day dawns and the morning star arises in your hearts. But know this first of all, that no prophecy of Scripture is a matter of one's own interpretation." [2 Peter 1:19,20 NAS]
We can't have a "sure word" about the meaning of Scripture (or anything else) unless we have a sure method to interpret the words. The following eight rules are the center of all grammatical interpretation. They have been accepted and used by scholars from Socrates to the present. While my hope is that they will be used to "rightly divide the word of truth" of the Holy Bible, they are equally applicable to legal, historical, and other such language.
Since the Bible teaches that God is not the author of confusion [1 Cor. 14:33], how can the many disagreements today between Christians and the proliferation of the cults be explained since all, or nearly all, claim to use the Bible as the basis of their doctrines? Nearly all false doctrines taught today by Christians and cultists alike can be traced to the distortion of the meaning of Biblical words. These eight rules are prayerfully offered in the hope that they may help many come to the truth of what God says in His Word. The Rev. Guy Duty said in his book Divorce & Remarriage:
"When two interpretations are claimed for a Scripture, the construction most in agreement with all the facts of the case should be adopted. When all the facts of an interpretation are in agreement they sound together in harmony, like notes in a chord.


Biblical interpretation is more than knowing a set of rules, but it cannot be done without the rules. So, learn the rules, and rightly apply them...." (Divorce & Remarriage, Minneapolis: Bethany House, 1967)
Here are the eight rules:
1) The rule of DEFINITION: What does the word mean? Any study of Scripture must begin with a study of words. Define your terms and then keep to the terms defined. The interpreter should conscientiously abide by the plain meaning of the words. This quite often may require using a Hebrew/English or Greek/English lexicon in order to make sure that the sense of the English translation is understood. A couple of good examples of this are the Greek words "allos" and "heteros". Both are usually translated as "another" in English - yet "allos" literally means "another of the same type" and "heteros" means "another of a different type."
2) The rule of USAGE: It must be remembered that the Old Testament was written originally by, to and for Jews. The words and idioms must have been intelligible to them - just as the words of Christ when talking to them must have been. The majority of the New Testament likewise was written in a milieu of Greco-Roman (and to a lesser extent Jewish) culture and it is important to not impose our modern usage into our interpretation. It is not worth much to interpret a great many phrases and histories if one's interpretations are shaded by pre-conceived notions and cultural biases, thereby rendering an inaccurate and ineffectual lesson.
3) The rule of CONTEXT: The meaning must be gathered from the context. Every word you read must be understood in the light of the words that come before and after it. Many passages will not be understood at all, or understood incorrectly, without the help afforded by the context. A good example of this is the Mormon practice of using 1 Cor. 8:5b: "...for there be gods many and lords many..." as a "proof text" of their doctrine of polytheism. However, a simple reading of the whole verse in the context of the whole chapter (e.g. where Paul calls these gods "so-called"), plainly demonstrates that Paul is not teaching polytheism.
4) The rule of HISTORICAL BACKGROUND: The interpreter must have some awareness of the life and society of the times in which the Scripture was written. The spiritual principle will be timeless but often can't be properly appreciated without some knowledge of the background. If the interpreter can have in his mind what the writer had in his mind when he wrote - without adding any excess baggage from the interpreter's own culture or society - then the true thought of the Scripture can be captured resulting in an accurate interpretation. Oliver Wendell Holmes said, "Our only interest in the past is for the light it throws upon the present."
5) The rule of LOGIC: Interpretation is merely logical reasoning. When interpreting Scripture, the use of reason is everywhere to be assumed. Does the interpretation make sense? The Bible was given to us in the form of human language and therefore appeals to human reason - it invites investigation. It is to be interpreted as we would any other volume: applying the laws of language and grammatical analysis. As Bernard Ramm said:
"What is the control we use to weed out false theological speculation? Certainly the control is logic and evidence... interpreters who have not had the sharpening experience of logic...may have improper notions of implication and evidence. Too frequently such a person uses a basis of appeal that is a notorious violation of the laws of logic and evidence." (Protestant Biblical Interpretation, Boston: W. A. Wilde, 1956)
6) The rule of PRECEDENT: We must not violate the known usage of a word and invent another for which there is no precedent. Just as a judge's chief occupation is the study of previous cases, so must the interpreter use precedents in order to determine whether they really support an alleged doctrine. Consider the Bereans in Acts 17:10-12 who were called "noble" because they searched the Scriptures to determine if what Paul taught them was true.
7) The rule of UNITY: The parts of Scripture being interpreted must be construed with reference to the significance of the whole. An interpretation must be consistent with the rest of Scripture. An excellent example of this is the doctrine of the Trinity. No single passage teaches it, but it is consistent with the teaching of the whole of Scripture (e.g. the Father, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit are referred to individually as God; yet the Scriptures elsewhere teach there is only one God).
8) The rule of INFERENCE: An inference is a fact reasonably implied from another fact. It is a logical consequence. It derives a conclusion from a given fact or premise. It is the deduction of one proposition from another proposition. Such inferential facts or propositions are sufficiently binding when their truth is established by competent and satisfactory evidence. Competent evidence means such evidence as the nature of the thing to be proved admits. Satisfactory evidence means that amount of proof which would ordinarily satisfy an unprejudiced mind beyond a reasonable doubt. Jesus used this rule when he proved the resurrection of the dead to the unbelieving Sadducees in Matt. 22:23-33.
Learning these eight rules and properly applying them will help keep any interpreter from making errors and will hopefully alleviate many of the disagreements unfortunately present in Christianity today. However, these eight principles are no substitute for the Holy Spirit which will, if you let Him, guide you in the truth [John 14:26]. If you receive Christ into your heart, God will give you the Holy Spirit freely as a gift [Acts 2:38]. I urge you, if you have not already done so, to examine the claims and the work of Jesus Christ and to receive Him as your Savior.
This paper will close with some words from King Solomon, the wisest man who ever lived, excepting our Lord Jesus Christ:
"A wise man will hear, and will increase learning; and a man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsels: to understand a proverb, and the interpretation." [Prov. 1:5,6]




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Thursday, September 30, 2010

Online Sermon



"Restoring Honor" Washington DC

The theme for this rally was to honor the memory of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Dr. King's niece, Dr. Alveda King, was a featured speaker honoring his legacy and good name. Also highlighting this event on August 28, 2010, was Sarah Palin and those awarded through recognition of living their lives in Faith, Hope and Charity.

Glenn's message was far from political. It was inspirational! The message was and is about restoring our core values and principles, returning to the core essence of our Founding Fathers. Beck urges us ALL to pray on our knees for our country, our leaders - to pray in our churches, synagogues, and mosques – and restore our country's founding principles under God. If we do not bring God back into our country (our lives), we will fall as a nation.

From the moment I committed to this journey everything synchronized into place. The energy at the gathering was electrical yet peaceful. I did not come across one rude or indignant person. There were hundreds of thousands of people there, nearing 500,000, which is a conservative estimate!

I was very proud to be a part of this gathering – history in the making. Those of you who have only heard of Glenn Beck in a derogatory sense, I urge you to watch him on Fox News and really listen to what he has to say. Don't just believe what he is conveying -instead research his findings yourself. Then and only then will you have an accurate viewpoint about Glenn and his message, as well as the history of our Founding Fathers and the future of our nation. Will we stand or will we fall? Learn what we the people need to do to secure our future, our children's future, and our grandchildren's future.

Nancy Kimes
Cambria, CA



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Wednesday, September 22, 2010

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ULC SEMINARY SERMONS
How to be a man

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#49 - How to be a Man

Steve Pavlina

How to be a man.

What does it mean to be a man today? How can men consciously express their masculinity without becoming cold or closed-hearted on the one hand...... or wimpy and emasculated on the other? What's the most loving way for a conscious man to express himself?

Here are 10 ways to live more consciously as a man:

1. Make real decisions.

A man understands and respects the power of choice. He lives a life of his own creation. He knows that life stagnates when he fails to decide and flourishes when he chooses a clear path.

When a man makes a decision, he opens the door he wants and closes the doors he doesn't want. He locks onto his target like a guided missile. There's no guarantee he'll reach his target, and he knows this, but he doesn't need such guarantees. He simply enjoys the sense of inevitability that comes from pushing the launch button.

A man doesn't require the approval of others. He's willing to follow his heart wherever it leads him. When a man is following his heart-centered path, it's of little consequence if the entire world is against him.

2. Put your relationships second.

A man who claims his #1 commitment in life is his relationship partner (or his family) is either too dishonest or too weak to be trusted. His loyalties are misplaced. A man who values individuals above his own integrity is a wretch, not a free thinker.

A man knows he must commit to something greater than satisfying the needs of a few people. He's not willing to be domesticated, but he is willing to accept the responsibility that comes with greater challenges. He knows that when he shirks that duty, he becomes something less than a man. When others observe that the man is unyieldingly committed to his values and ideals, he gains their trust and respect, even when he cannot gain their direct support. The surest way for a man to lose the respect of others (as well as his self-respect) is to violate his own values.

Life will test the man to see if he's willing to put loyalty to others ahead of loyalty to his principles. The man will be offered many temptations to expose his true loyalties. A man's greatest reward is to live with integrity, and his greatest punishment is what he inflicts upon himself for placing anything above his integrity. Whenever the man sacrifices his integrity, he loses his freedom... and himself as well. He becomes an object of pity.

3. Be willing to fail.

A man is willing to make mistakes. He's willing to be wrong. He'd rather try and fail than do nothing.

A man's self-trust is one of his greatest assets. When he second-guesses himself by worrying about failure, he diminishes himself. An intelligent man considers the prospect of failure, but he doesn't preoccupy himself with pointless worry. He accepts that if a failure outcome occurs, he can deal with it.

A man grows more from failure than he does from success. Success cannot test his resolve in the way that failure can. Success has its challenges, but a man learns more about himself when he takes on challenges that involve risk. When a man plays it safe, his vitality is lost, and he loses his edge.

4. Be confident.

A man speaks and acts with confidence. He owns his attitude.

A man doesn't adopt a confident posture because he knows he'll succeed. He often knows that failure is a likely outcome. But when the odds of success are clearly against him, he still exudes confidence. It isn't because he's ignorant or suffering from denial. It's because he's proving to himself that he has the strength to transcend his self-doubt. This builds his courage and persistence, two of his most valuable allies.

A man is willing to be defeated by the world. He's willing to be taken down by circumstances beyond his control. But he refuses to be overwhelmed by his own self-doubt. He knows that when he stops trusting himself, he is surely lost. He'll surrender to fate when necessary, but he won't surrender to fear.

5. Express love actively.

A man is an active giver of love, not a passive receiver. A man is the first to initiate a conversation, the first to ask for what's needed, and the first to say "I love you." Waiting for someone else to make the first move is unbecoming of him. The universe does not respond positively to his hesitation. Only when he's in motion do the floodgates of abundance open.

Man is the out-breath of source energy. It is his job - his duty - to share his love with the world. He must wean himself from suckling the energy of others and become a vibrant transmitter of energy himself. He must allow that energy to flow from source, through him, and into the world. When he assumes this role, he has no doubt he is living as his true self.

6. Re-channel sex energy.

A man doesn't hide his sexuality. If others shrink from him because he's too masculine, he allows them to have their reaction. There's no need for him to lower his energy just to avoid frightening the timid. A man accepts the consequences of being male; he makes no apologies for his nature.

A man is careful not to allow his energy to get stuck at the level of lust. He re-channels much of his sexual energy into his heart and head, where it can serve his higher values instead of just his animal instincts. (You can do this by visualizing the energy rising, expanding, and eventually flowing throughout your entire body and beyond.)

A man channels his sexual energy into his heart-centered pursuits. He feels such energy pulsing within him, driving him to action. He feels uncomfortable standing still. He allows his sexual energy to explode through his heart, not just his genitals.

7. Face your fears.

For a man, being afraid of something is reason enough to do it. A man's fear is a call to be tested. When a man hides from his fears, he knows he's fallen out of alignment with his true self. He feels weak, depressed, and helpless. No matter how hard he tries to comfort himself and achieve a state of peace, he cannot overcome his inner feeling of dread. Only when facing his fears does a man experience peace.

A man makes a friend of risk. He doesn't run and hide from the tests of fear. He turns toward them and engages them boldly.

A man succeeds or fails. A coward never makes the attempt. Specific outcomes are of less concern to a man than his direction.

A man feels like a man whenever he faces the right way, staring straight into his fears. He feels even more like a man when he advances in the direction of his fears, as if sailing on the winds of an inner scream.

8. Honor the masculinity of other men.

When a man sees a male friend undertaking a new venture that will clearly lead to failure, what does the man do? Does he warn his friend off such a path? No, the man encourages his friend to continue. The man knows it's better for his friend to strike out confidently and learn from the failure experience. The man honors his friend's decision to reach out and make the attempt. The man won't deny his friend the benefits of a failure experience. The man may offer his friend guidance, but he knows his friend must fail repeatedly in order to develop self-trust and courage.

When you see a man at the gym struggling to lift a heavy weight, do you jump in and say, "Here... let me help you with that. Maybe the two of us can lift it together"? No, that would rob him of the growth experience - and probably make a quick enemy of him as well.

The male path is filled with obstacles. It typically includes more failures than successes. These obstacles help a man discover what's truly important to him. Through repeated failures a man learns to persist in the pursuit of worthy goals and to abandon goals that are unworthy of him.

A man can handle being knocked down many times. For every physical setback he experiences, he enjoys a spiritual advancement, and that is enough for him.

9. Accept responsibility for your relationships.

A man chooses his friends, lovers, and associates consciously. He actively seeks out the company of people who inspire and challenge him, and he willingly sheds those who hold him back.

A man doesn't blame others for his relationship problems. When a relationship is no longer compatible with his heart-centered path, he initiates the break-up and departs without blame or guilt.

A man holds himself accountable for the relationships he allows into his life. He holds others accountable for their behavior, but he holds himself accountable for his decision to tolerate such behavior.

A man teaches others how to treat him by the relationships he's willing to allow into his life. A man refuses to fill his life with negative or destructive relationships; he knows that's a form of self-abuse.

10. Die well.

A man's great challenge is to develop the inner strength to express his true self. He must learn to share his love with the world without holding back. When a man is satisfied that he's done that, he can make peace with death. But if he fails to do so, death becomes his enemy and haunts him all the days of his life.

A man cannot die well unless he lives well. A man lives well when he accepts his mortality and draws strength from knowing that his physical existence is temporary. When a man faces and accepts the inevitability of death... when he learns to see death as his ally instead of his enemy... he's finally able to express his true self. So a man isn't ready to live until he accepts that he's already dead.

Talk to you next week!


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Tuesday, September 21, 2010

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ULC SEMINARY SERMONS
About Women

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#50 - How to be a Woman

Suzie Fleming

In the past hundred years or so, women have caused and experienced unprecedented social change. Whereas in previous years they were extremely limited in terms of their public power, they now have choices, experiences and opportunities. Many women are now playing multiple 'roles' - in addition to being a mother, a wife, and a daughter, they are also career women or running small businesses, writing, engaging in community work, active within politics, studying and many more things.

Steve Pavlina recently wrote a post in which he outlined his concept of what it meant to become a man. At the end he challenged his readers to write the opposing post - how to be a woman. Initially, I felt fairly excluded. What is there to stop any woman from meeting any of the points he makes? The answer is none, except possibly inclination. After some thought, however, I decided that there are some fundamental value decisions that women may have a different perspective on.

1. Take control, accept responsibility

Women tend to be raised to believe that group consensus matters. They will seek approval from their family and friend before major choices. They may give way to people they perceive as having more authority. All of this can be very positive at times - but it's important to understand that ultimately your life is your responsibility. The choices you make should reflect your values, not those of the people around you. If you want to trek across three continents on your own, then you should. Yes, it will be dangerous, and yes you may face dangers that are overwhelming, but that's life and that's how we grow.

To put this in perspective, when I was 18 I traveled to the USA (I'm English) to meet and stay with friends I had only spoken to online. I repeated this when I was 20, but in Europe. That first trip I made was the first time I had ever flown, and I made a transatlantic flight by myself with no guarantee of who I was meeting. It was very scary, but I would never take that experience back. I learned more about myself in those two weeks than I had done in the entire previous year.

2. It's okay not to do everything

There are women who manage to balance a very successful career with bringing up several children and being a loving wife. Usually they succeed, however, because they love what they do. If you hate kids then don't have them. If you hate corporate life then don't try and be a high-powered business woman. There is absolutely nothing wrong with focusing on your children and bringing them up well - and your kids will thank you for it.

I once heard a child say to his mother "We are not your children. Your business is your children". Don't do two things badly - do the thing you really want to do well.

3. It's okay to do everything

Long gone are the days when women, once pregnant, were consigned to a house. Now you have incredible opportunities. Most employers should offer flexible working options, so that you can work and raise your children. Equally, men are much more open to the idea that they are equally responsible for bringing up children and doing household chores.

Additional income from a second working adult can spell the difference between no investments and future wealth. Equally, a job means you can maintain independent friends, income and hobbies.

There are also plenty of options for the home business owner. The internet is an incredibly powerful tool - use it wisely.

4. Be honest, not manipulative

Women tend to be better at manipulating people. They are often more aware of social nuance, and can 'read' hidden fears and desires much more astutely than some men. Used wisely, this can smooth over potential conflict, and allow people to communicate more effectively. Used badly, this can result in manipulation. Taking advantage of people and their vulnerabilities for your own personal gain is never okay. Sometimes expressing yourself honestly is the best path, even if it does lead to conflict.

5. Speak out

Women were silenced for thousands of years. Their writing was consigned to the literary pulp bin. They were not educated for fear their brains couldn't take it. But they still managed to produce classic works, they still managed to make significant social changes, and they still managed to get and use power effectively. Right now we are the most educated and the most powerful that we have ever been.

We have also been ruled by a hierarchy of rich, white men for thousands of years. When they act according to their interests it is not in the best interest of everyone else. We finally are starting to see diversity in the people who make decisions that affect us all. The more diverse the experiences that make up a group, the more adaptable that group is. The more varied the skill set, the more varied the knowledge, the more resources a group has. Every group of people has a unique history, a unique perspective, and unique guidance to offer.

If you have something to say, then say it. Ask questions in class. Suggest improvements to your boss. Reveal corruption and crime to other people so that collectively we can deal with it. Be an example to other women - that we matter, that our problems are important, and that our suggestions are valuable.

6. Listen and learn

Part of speaking out involves listening. Dismissing male experience and male problems is as wrong as men dismissing female experience and female problems. Right now we are at a turning point of human social evolution. Everything the individual does impacts the larger social organism. Equally, the larger social organism impacts every individual. If China pollutes the skies, then we all feel the impact. If America declares war on a particular country, then every country has to deal with the aftermath - whether it is the refugees, or the economical downturn.

Therefore, someone else's problem is our problem too. If we don't help them create a solution that benefits everyone, then we may end up negatively impacted by their personal solution. On a smaller scale, if someone is abused as a child and does not receive help and attention from the people around them, they are very likely to abuse others when older.

In medical terms, prevention is better than cure.

7. Don't wait for someone else

Traditionally, it was men who began courting and who proposed, and it was men who made major financial and life changing decisions within the family unit. But do you honestly want to sit around waiting for someone else to make up their mind to ask the question? If you want something, you have to take action to get it. That means popping the question. It means deciding where your money goes. It means working out what is important to you, and taking steps to achieve it.

It all comes back to equal opportunity - and equal responsibility.

8. Be fluid

Women are cyclical. Their hormones change, their moods and focus change. Our cycles are not something we should fight and struggle against, as that is tantamount to struggling against your own body. Equally, our cycles should not be allowed to rule our lives. We have to make the decisions to understand our bodies and what they need. We need to take advantage of the different parts of our cycle.

I am only just starting to understand my own mood and focus changes, but already the difference it has made is amazing. Instead of struggling to complete tasks that I 'should' do, I do the tasks that are related to my focus. I've noticed that during the first half of the cycle I am very sociable, very outward orientated, and very goal focused. During the second half I draw inwards, I become more concerned with myself, my immediate environment, and my health.

Now clearly I can't quit working for two weeks out of every four, but what I can do is ensure that difficult and time-consuming tasks are completed in the first half of my cycle, and that easier or more personal projects are completed in the second half.

Listen to your body. It knows what it needs.

9. Eat Well

I've rarely met a woman who didn't have some sort of issue with food. From fad diets to binging and detoxing, from hyper-controlled portion sizes to complete chaos. Food is a very fundamental part of our health and our social lives. The media in particular is very fickle when it comes to how it talks about women and their body shapes.

We all know that being undernourished is unhealthy and that being obese is unhealthy. There are a vast range of ideal weights however, and we all have one that is appropriate for us. Far more important than our weight is our happiness, our confidence and our personality.

Food is here to be enjoyed. It is here to be colorful, interesting and to replenish us. Half a celery stick and a piece of lettuce is not enough. It is much better to eat lots of varied foods, and exercise than it is to restrict calorie intake and remain sedentary.

Aim for optimum health, not optimum weight.

10. Accept your sexuality and love your body

You are beautiful. You are a sexual being. Enjoy sex, don't do anything you don't want to do, experiment, and don't be afraid to take control once in a while. Sex is a wonderful thing, but it takes a bit of work and experimentation to understand it. Masturbation is a great way to gain confidence and knowledge before inviting someone else in. It's okay to have one night stands as long as everyone is honest with each other, and everyone stays safe (use condoms!) It's okay to wait for the one person you are sure about, even if it takes a while, as long as you are making yourself happy meanwhile. It's okay to have fantasies. It's okay to be single. It's okay to be in relationship as long as you feel loved and safe.

Talk to you next week!


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Monday, September 20, 2010

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Sunday School Lesson 18


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        Our Faith - Twenty Lessons separated into four. (17-20)
        Lesson Seventeen

        Alas for him who never sees

        The stars shine through his cypress trees!

        For Life is ever Lord of Death,

        And Love can never lose its own.

        Whittier.

        I. THE TALK.

        We must turn to the New Testament for Bible light on the subject of life after death, not to the Old.

        Little Argument.

        Jesus rarely enters into any arguments with those who put questions to him on this subject. Once he replied at some length to the Sadducees, who did not believe in immortality, and ended thus:

        "As to the dead, and the fact that they rise from the grave, have you never read in the Book of Moses, in the passage about the Bush, how God spoke to him thus: I am the God of Abraham, and the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob. God is not God of dead, but of living people. You are greatly mistaken."

        The Father's House.

        In another conversation, this time with his disciples, Jesus uttered these words:

        "Believe in God, and believe in me, too. In my Father's house there are many rooms. I am going to prepare a place for you."

        His Last Words.

        The last words Jesus spoke revealed his thought of the future:

        "Jesus called out loudly, 'Father, into Thy hands I commit my spirit.' And with these words he expired."

        Other Sayings.

        But we are not left to these for our only light and information. Under all that Jesus taught, and through the life he lived, ran the faith in immortality that shows itself in three ways.

        Life Everlasting.

        The Great Teacher was always pointing out the way that led to life everlasting. Enter in by the narrow gate; strive and falter not; seek the pearl of great price; keep the lamp filled with oil.

        These and other similar teachings referred to the strong life, the good life, which was the everlasting life. Death could not destroy it.

        The Eternal Life.

        Jesus also exhorted men to be sure and obtain part in the life eternal. He did not mean by this that men should prepare and wait for some great thing to come to pass. Eternity is now and here. Eternity is God, and God is here and now. He who is "accepted of God" is already living the eternal life. It is not true or good to say, "Prepare for eternity," as though that meant some far-off time and place.

        The Victorious Life.

        And the third way Jesus taught immortality, or enforced its reality, was by calling on all to live the victorious life.

        Jesus sought to stir the sense of sonship to God in every heart, to make it strong, so that confidence would take the place of timidity.

        "Even now," said an apostle, "we are children of God, and if children, then heirs," -heirs of the gift of life everlasting, given to us by our heavenly Father.

        Q. Did Jesus often speak in figures?

        A. Most of his teachings are in parables, or pictorial form.

        Q. How ought we to read them?

        A. Always remembering to separate the idea from the imagery.

        Q. Is this especially true of everything he said about the future life?

        A. Yes. Great harm has been done by failing to follow this rule.

        Q. Can we think of any particular cases?

        A. Yes. About the resurrection and about heaven and hell.

        Q. What has happened in these instances?

        A. His allegorical, pictorial language has been taken literally.

        Q. What has been the result?

        A. The spiritual idea has been lost in the material description.

        Onward.

        We believe that every soul goes onward at death, but it may not go at once upward. It may undergo discipline for a while. Some souls are better prepared than others. It will not be the same to all, without regard to conduct and character.

        Upward.

        This means that the good, the noble, the honorable, are the spiritually minded.

        That he who loves the low and mean checks and hinders his progress here and hereafter: he is earthly minded.

        Such are the teachings of Jesus and of the writers in the New Testament.

        II. HINTS TO TEACHERS.

        You will do well to elaborate what is only suggested in the lesson, and illustrate how Jesus spoke in metaphors, in poetic, pictorial language. It was Oriental; it was simple and graphic; it was understood correctly at the time. But in after times the idea became confused with the setting, and the frame was of more consequence than the picture. Jesus said little definitely about the future; but his faith in that future was evident in all he said and did.

        III. QUESTIONS FOR PUPILS.

            * Where do we look for light on this subject in the Bible?
            * Did Jesus enter into argument about immortality?
            * Why?
            * How did he once describe the future?
            * What were his last words?
            * Can you explain the phrase "life everlasting"?
            * "Eternal life"?
            * "Victorious life"?
            * Did Jesus often use figures of speech in referring to the future?
            * How do careless readers make mistakes?
            * Do we believe that all souls go onward and upward alike?
            * Why not?

        Lesson Eighteen

        When falls the night upon the earth,

        And all in shadow lies,

        The sun's not dead, his radiance still

        Beams bright on other skies..

        Minot J. Savage

        I. THE TALK.

        Q. What have we ascertained?

        A. That some kind of hope or faith in future life has always existed.

        Q. Was it clear and strong?

        A. No. It varied with the age and civilization of the peoples.

        Q. What light did Jesus bring?

        A. He taught a faith in everlasting life.

        Q. How did that help?

        A. By showing that he who has the true life now has proof of future life.

        If.

        Now let us see the consequences. If we believe in the progress of mankind onward and upward forever, then there are certain things we must keep in mind.

        Prepare to Live.

        The most important duty is to be ready to live, day by day. Sometimes we think our duty is to prepare for death, because that event seems so strange and solemn. But he who fills each day nobly will meet death triumphantly.

        Living Nobly.

        Living day by day does not mean a careless, ordinary way. We must make the most of our time, follow the highest examples, do good, and leave the world better. We must listen to conscience, and obey the truth as we see it.

        Dignity.

        Another thing to be remembered: If we are to live hereafter, then the present takes on more dignity and greatness. It is true, this is God's world, and therefore sacred and noble; but when we think of other worlds and continued life, we look out over a grander existence.

        Large.

        A plan that is made for a day only is not so large as a plan made for a week, while a plan for a week is smaller than a year's. At the thought of immortality we see endless opportunity, perpetual growth, that gives courage and strength. But, further, we lay our plans large for some results no few years can compass.

        Progress.

        What does progress mean? We may expect to know more. Many mysterious things will be made clear. Is there anything greater than going on and on, learning, enjoying more and more? Sometimes we have thought of heaven as a place where good people did nothing. Would you not tire of that?

        New Opportunities.

        We believe there will be new opportunities for those who have failed here, but who had noble aims. Circumstances are not our masters, but they have great power. We must not be hasty to judge. Some will go up higher, who failed, judged by the world's tests: others will go lower, who were praised by men. God knoweth all.

        Q. What now are the reasons for believing in the future life?

        A. That mankind has desired it.

        Q. Another.

        A. That it completes the present life.

        Q. Have we a third reason?

        A. We cannot think of the soul as dead.

        Q. Is this all?

        A. No. It is true to our highest conception of God and His justice.

        Q. Still more?

        A. Jesus, the greatest religious teacher, enforces the belief.

        Other Arguments.

        There are other reasons; but they are not easily treated in talks of this kind, so I omit them. Therefore, I come back to our first thought: If these reasons make our faith stronger, then we ought to be happy and brave. A wise man of old - Socrates - said, -

        "Be of good cheer about death, and know this of a truth, that no evil can happen to a good man either in life or after death."

        A greater than Socrates gave us the Beatitude: Happy are those that have been persecuted in the cause of Right, for it is to them that the kingdom of heaven belongs.

        The Eternal Goodness is our source of trust. We will go forward hopefully.

        I know not where His islands lift

        Their fronded palms in air;

        I only know I cannot drift

        Beyond His love and care.

        Whittier.

        II. HINTS TO TEACHERS.

        Actual life, the life of today, interests the young. But his thought of a future life must be unfolded early, and taught in reasonable views. Not doing this, we run great risks of errors creeping in as life matures. Christianity did not create the idea of immortality, neither did it make clear the place where souls dwell in the next world. But Jesus deepened the reasonable faith in personal life hereafter, and asked us to trust the Eternal Goodness for the rest. Impress this is all ways.

        III. QUESTIONS FOR PUPILS.

            * What is meant by the poetry quoted from Mr. Savage?
            * How does a tree bear leaves and fruit?
            * How does it survive the winter's cold?
            * How does this figure apply to our subject?
            * What is everlasting or enduring life?
            * What is the best preparation for death?
            * How do you define "living nobly"?
            * How does the thought of another life affect our thought of this one?
            * What is meant by "progress"?
            * Can you give some of the reasons for believing in our "fifth point"?

        Lesson Nineteen

        I. THE TALK.

        We have now finished our talks on the five points. Let us add one on some things that follow. What are we intending to do with Our Faith?

        A. We will make it grow.

        Q. What do you mean by that?

        A. Apply it, enlarge it, enrich it.

        Q. How can this be done?

        A. By keeping the mind open.

        Q. Ought we to welcome new truth?

        A. Always.

        Q. Is there any danger?

        A. There is danger in refusing to listen to new truth.

        Three Ways.

        There are three ways of using a Faith, three ways of applying our religious belief.

        First, by making it strengthen and develop our characters.

        Second, by using it to organize a church and to create a denomination.

        Third, by putting it forth, with others, as a grand missionary cause, a gospel of "Good news" to the world.

        Q. Are there any dangers in this?

        A. Yes. And we must be careful.

        Q. What are some things to be avoided?

        A. Bigotry and persecution.

        Q. Can we be zealous for our faith and remain broad?

        A. Certainly.

        Q. Is it narrow to be in earnest?

        A. No. Some narrow minds are never enthusiastic.

        Universal Church.

        We often hear of a church universal. But that does not mean one church, one form of worship, for all. It means a unity of spirit and aim, - the spirit and aim of Jesus, with different churches.

        Q. How did Saint Paul speak of this?

        A. Different "administrations," different forms, but the same spirit.

        Q. What is meant by the "same spirit"?

        A. Love to God, service for man, discipleship of Jesus.

        Unity in Variety.

        If all persons accepted Our Faith, they would not necessarily think just alike or have the same church. This belief we have studied allows for variety of application and unfolding. That is one deep reason why we think it will spread and become powerful.

        Two.

        There are two words we must always remember, and keep in mind what they stand for in religion.

        Q. What is the first?

        A. Reason.

        Q. The second?

        A. Reverence.

        Q. How does the first help us?

        A. By showing us the truth.

        Q. What does the second stand for?

        A. Reverence is love and admiration for truth.

        Together.

        They work together. Reason gives us the truth, and reverence impels us to be obedient to the truth.

        Q. But is reason opposed to faith?

        A. No. Without reason we could not have faith.

        Q. Is faith greater than reason?

        A. Yes. Because we believe on and beyond what we know and prove.

        Q. What is faith without reason?

        A. Superstition.

        Q. What is reason without faith?

        A. Half-developed character.

        Q. Could the world go on a day without faith?

        A. No.

        Going Forward.

        As we go forward, loyal and zealous to Our Faith, how can we come into union with others and prove that we are truly "liberal"? Perhaps Rev. W.C. Gannett's four tests will do:

            * Freedom of reason and freedom of conscience.
            * Fellowship, the Spirit.
            * Service, the Aim.
            * Character, the Test.

        Vaster.

        There is a stanza by Tennyson that tells us well how we ought to use Our Faith:

        Let knowledge grow from more to more,

        But more of reverence in us dwell;

        That mind and soul, according well,

        May make one music as before, - but vaster.

        II. HINTS TO TEACHERS.

        You can do an important service to the pupils, if you enforce the idea of this lesson. The right use and the full use of a statement of belief is yet to be understood by Christians. It must be made a source of progress in thought, of guidance in conduct, of joy in life, of fellowship in religion. "Creeds" and doctrines have been used in just the opposite ways. Let us prove to the world that our young people can learn a "faith," love it, and stand by it, with liberty of mind and breadth of view.

        III. QUESTIONS FOR PUPILS.

            * What must we do with Our Faith?
            * How do you explain it?
            * Ought we to welcome new truth?
            * What are the three ways of using Our Faith?
            * What two evils ought we to avoid?
            * What do we mean by "the universal church"?
            * What two words should we remember?
            * Can you mention Mr. Gannett's four tests of a "liberal"?
            * Can you repeat the lines from Tennyson?
            * Will you explain their exact meaning?

        Lesson Twenty

        A Summary and Review.

        We have reached the end of our talks. It seems to me fitting to five one more treasure into the keeping of memory. At the beginning we learned Mr. Mott's "Therefore." Now, as a summing-up, as a review, let us get well acquainted with Mrs. Clara Bancroft Beatley's valuable

        Exposition of Our Faith.

        I. The Fatherhood of God. .

        By the Fatherhood of God, we mean that God is a Father and that all are His children. God is more loving than the best father we know, or can in any way dream of. As children trust their earthly parents, so we trust the Father in heaven.

        If ye, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father in heaven give good things to them that ask Him?

        Our Father which art in heaven, hallowed by Thy name. Thy kingdom come. They will be done, as in heaven so on earth.

        II. The Brotherhood of Man.

        By the Brotherhood of Man, we mean that all are members of one family, and so are brothers and sisters. Our lives are happiest when we recognize this bond of Brotherhood.

        Therefore let us lay aside bitterness, and wrath, and evil speaking, and be kind to one another, forgiving one another.

        If God so loved us, we ought also to love one another.

        O Brother-man fold to thy heart thy Brother!

        Where pity dwells, the peace of God is there;

        To worship rightly is to love each other.

        Each smile, a hymn; each kindly deed, a prayer!

        III. The Leadership of Jesus.

        By the Leadership of Jesus, we mean that we believe that Jesus has shown the way of life beyond all other teachers. He has taught us that God is our Father, and man our Brother; and that heaven is within the heart. He has given us the Golden Rule of life, and has taught us the prayer that has never grown old. We accept him as our Leader, and would walk in his path.

        Where'er we walk, our Shepherd goes before.

        I am come, that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.

        O Lord and Master of us all,

        What e'er our name or sign,

        We own thy sway, we hear thy call,

        We test our lives by thine.

        We faintly hear, we dimly see,

        In differing phrase we pray,

        But dim or clear, we own in thee

        The light, the truth, the way.

        IV. Salvation by Character.

        By Salvation by Character, we mean that the highest peace and joy can only come as we follow the right, forget self, and grow more and more toward perfection. We may have fine ideas of right, and recite Our Faith every Sunday, but only as we live the right, do we follow the Leadership of Jesus, and find the peace and joy of the Heavenly Kingdom.

        Not every one that saith unto me, "Lord, Lord," shall enter the Kingdom of Heaven, but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in Heaven.

        Behold the Kingdom of Heaven is within you.

        To be saved is only this, salvation from our selfishness.

        Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles?

        The fruits of the spirit are love, joy, peace!

        The tissues of the life to be

        We weave with colors all our own;

        And in the field of Destiny

        We reap as we have sown.

        V. The Progress of Mankind, onward and upward forever.

        By the Progress of Mankind, onward and upward forever, we mean that we were made to grow toward God, the Father of our spirits. There is no end to this growth. We have the hope of growing wiser and better as long as we live in this world, and of finding new opportunities of growth in the heavenly life to come.

        Build thee more stately mansions, O my soul,

        As the swift seasons roll!

        Leave thy low-vaulted past!

        Let each new temple, nobler than the last,

        Shut thee from heaven with a dome more vast,

        Till thou at length art free!

        Leaving thine outgrown shall by life's unresting sea.

        In love to God and love to man

        Our simple creed finds ample scope;

        Secure in God's unerring plan,

        We walk by faith, are saved by hope.



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